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anal sex might seem daunting, but its really not a big deal. Well go over all your burning questions, including whether it hurts, and offer tips to make your first time a good one. a roundup of anal sex myths cited by jezebel in 2013 places emphasis on the fact that pleasurable anal sex does not cause harm to your anus or rectum. The idea that anal sex always hurts is a common myth, not unlike the idea that vaginal intercourse always hurts the first time. The truth is that if youre doing it right, no sex should ever hurt unless you want it to. When a man has sex for the first time, it shouldnt hurt, but you can make it easier for your partner through foreplay, making sure theres plenty of lubrication, and by being gentle and going slowly. Anal sex can be painful for men and women the first time, and there may be a little bleeding. My boyfriend and i tried anal sex yesterday, and although we used lubrication it just felt too big and really hurt so we stopped immediately. Ive heard you have to gradually get used to it by starting small etc. But lots of my friends have been able to do it first time without a problem. although anal sex and vaginal sex both often involve insertion, a transgender woman is, as is true of all people, never required to engage in any sex act at any time. People have enjoyed anal sex for many years without ever causing damage. The way they do that is by never going further than what feels good. Even if you have anal sex regularly, you might have days where it just doesnt work. Ok anal will hurt for the first time, its something big going into a small place where stuff is only sup post to come out, but the pain will be less and maybe non-existent after the first time if he takes it very slow, your relaxed and your well lubes up. Anal sex may hurt the first time (and every time) if you dont use lube. The skin on your anus and rectum is delicate, and it doesnt make its own lubrication the way vaginas do. The skin on your anus and rectum is delicate, and it doesnt make its own lubrication the way vaginas do. Since this is your first time and youre concerned about pain, you should really be the one controlling the.